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Ross: 21 years of losing hasn’t stopped the M’s, one playoff loss won’t either

Oct 12, 2022, 7:44 AM | Updated: 9:46 am

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I sense this is what many of you are dealing with this morning. How do you handle a ?


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Do you sink into a funk? Do you open a bag of chips and eat the whole thing including the chip dust at the bottom? Are you mean to the cat? Do you tailgate small cars in frustration?

I hope not, because none of these behaviors are healthy.

On the post-game show, they were going through the what-ifs, and among the big questions was: why didn’t Robby Ray throw the slider on that last pitch? It was another “why didn’t the Seahawks run the ball” moment.

Pretty soon I too was asking myself “why didn’t Robby Ray throw the slider?” And I’m not even sure what a slider is. Apparently, it’s a pitch that always wins games.

But let’s think this through.

If there is any characteristic that should define an all-in Mariners fan, it’s knowing how to accept a loss – because we’ve had 21 years of practice.

But the other thing I think about is how watching a loss unfold can help us deal with our own defeats.

Because in no sport are individual mistakes as visible or as ruthlessly punished as in baseball.

In football your mistakes are typically forced on you by the other team – somebody’s always running after you, purposely trying to mess things up. But in baseball, you mess up alone. You miss the bad hop. You drop the ball. You strike out looking. You throw the wrong pitch.

Pitchers are held personally responsible for every run they allow. Fielding mistakes are labeled “errors” and go on your permanent record.

The most famous poem about baseball – “Casey at the Bat” – is about the slugger who choked.

It’s like the workplace!

You can find yourself in trouble at any moment just for doing your job.

So, when the Mariners lose, I can console myself by thinking – you know, compared to that – my work day wasn’t so bad!

And the other takeaway is this. The Mariners were certainly down after losing – the post-game interviews sounded like everybody’s dog had just died – but I didn’t hear a single quiet quitter in that locker room. And I know that despite having a bad day, it’s their job to put that bad day behind them, trust their skills, get some rest, and throw themselves at it again.

An excellent example for us all.

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