Markovich: Fatherhood can’t be a part-time job
Jun 18, 2024, 11:23 AM | Updated: 3:16 pm
Being a father means being there everyday. (Getty Images)
(Getty Images)
We just had Father’s Day – the time to celebrate the role of fathers – whether it’s traditional fatherhood or non-traditional.
I recently became a first-time grandfather and love it. But I was alerted to the fact of some striking statistics coming from the U.S. Census.
There are approximately 18.3 million children across America who live without a father in the home. That’s about 1 in 4 children. Fatherless families are four times more likely to raise children in poverty and according to the U.S. Census Bureau, 84% of homeless families are headed by women.
Data from the founder of says the average school-age boy only spends 30 minutes a week in a one-on-one conversation with their father when dad’s at home – compared to 30 hours a week on video games, TV, and the internet – 60 hours if they’re a teenager.
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The Department of Justice said 63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes, and 85% of children who exhibit behavioral disorders are from fatherless homes. With all that grim news – you may be asking yourself, “Matt, what’s the point?”
Jimmy Buffett referred to getting a tattoo as a permanent reminder of a temporary feeling. I think that holds true for some having kids.
So, fathers out there (biological, foster, adopting, non-binary, gay, or other non-traditional means), it really doesn’t matter if you are a father to a child. If you want respect, have respect for the life you are responsible for raising in this world.
We honored Father’s Day for the role dads play in a family circle and a child’s life. We don’t need more fathers believing that temporary feelings mean I can also be a temporary father when it fits me.
The stats are ugly and startling enough without more fathers shirking their responsibilities of what a father’s day is all about.
Matt Markovich often covers the state legislature and public policy for 成人X站 Newsradio. You can read more of Matt Markovich’s stories here. Follow Matt on , or email him here.
