Jill Sobule, the singer-songwriter known for ‘I Kissed a Girl,’ has died in a fire
May 1, 2025, 6:59 PM | Updated: 7:40 pm
FILE - Singer Jill Sobule poses on a sofa before performing at New York's "Supper Club" March 19, 1997. (AP Photo/Rick Maiman, File)
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(AP Photo/Rick Maiman, File)
Jill Sobule, the award-winning singer-songwriter whose witty and poignant writing first attracted widespread attention with the gay-themed song 鈥淚 Kissed a Girl,鈥� died in a house fire Thursday. She was 66.
Her death was confirmed by her publicist, David Elkin, in an email Thursday afternoon. It was not immediately clear how the fire started.
鈥淛ill Sobule was a force of nature and human rights advocate whose music is woven into our culture,鈥� John Porter, her manager, said in a statement. 鈥淚 was having so much fun working with her. I lost a client & a friend today. I hope her music, memory, & legacy continue to live on and inspire others.鈥�
During her more than three decades of recording, Sobule released 12 albums that addressed such complex topics as the death penalty, anorexia nervosa, reproduction and LGBTQ+ issues.
Her first album, 鈥淭hings Here Are Different,鈥� was released in 1990. Five years later, she received widespread attention for her hit singles, 鈥淪upermodel,鈥� from the movie 鈥淐lueless,鈥� and 鈥淚 Kissed A Girl,” which, despite being banned on several southern radio stations, made it into the Billboard Top 20.
She also starred in an autobiographical off-Broadway musical that initially premiered at the Wild Project in New York in 2022 and includes songs and stories about her life.
Sobule was known for taking control of her career by fundraising so she could make her next album. In 2008, after two major record companies dumped her and two indie labels went bankrupt beneath her, she raised tens of thousands of dollars from fans so she could make a new album.
鈥淭he old kind of paradigm, where you鈥檝e always waited for other people to do things, you鈥檇 have your manager and your agent,鈥� she said at the time. 鈥淵ou鈥檇 wait for the big record company to give you money to do things and they tell you what to do. This is so great. I want to do everything like this.鈥�
Sobule was scheduled to perform in Denver on Friday night. Instead, there will be an informal gathering hosted by her friend Ron Bostwick from 105.5 The Colorado Sound at the performance space where attendees can “share a story or song,鈥� according to her publicist.
A formal memorial to celebrate her life and legacy will be held later this summer.
鈥淣o one made me laugh more. Her spirit and energy shall be greatly missed within the music community and beyond,鈥� Craig Grossman, her booking agent, said in a statement.
Born in Denver, Colorado, on Jan. 16, 1959, she has described herself as a shy child who preferred observing over participating.
Sobule was known for playing dozens of shows a year and has described her live performances as vulnerable experiences. She said she often doesn鈥檛 have a set list and wings it.
She’s performed with such icons as Neil Young, Billy Bragg and Cyndi Lauper, and also inducted Neil Diamond into the Songwriter鈥檚 Hall of Fame, according to her website. She also sang a song as herself on an episode of 鈥淭he Simpsons鈥� in 2019.
鈥淚n a good way, I feel like I鈥檓 still a rookie,” she told The Associated Press in 2023 in an interview about her musical. “There鈥檚 so much more to do and I haven鈥檛 done my best yet.鈥�
She is survived by her brother and sister-in-law, James and Mary Ellen Sobule, along with her nephews and cousins.
