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[Warning: content in this story may be sensitive for those who have dealt with suicide]

When a distraught friend 鈥� armed with a gun 鈥� made a 鈥渟cary and frantic phone call鈥� threatening suicide to Brian Hayvaz late Tuesday night, the former Tumwater firefighter did what most would do: he called 911 while rushing to his friend鈥檚 aid.

What Hayvas didn鈥檛 expect: a return call from a police official, apologizing for being unable to respond. Under a new state law 鈥� passed on mostly party lines in 2021 鈥� law enforcement professionals are not allowed to intervene in suicide attempts unless another person is also in danger.

鈥� ‘You don鈥檛 respond to an individual who states they want to kill themselves and have guns in the house?鈥� 鈥� Hayvas recalled his post-911 conversation on Wednesday鈥檚 Dori Monson Show. 鈥淗e (a sergeant) apologized and informed me I was on my own.鈥�

Hayvas told Dori that he knew his suicidal friend was a military veteran and owned weapons. Without any law enforcement or emergency response backup, Hayvas told Dori, his crisis training kicked in.

鈥淚鈥檒l come over,鈥� Hayvas recalls telling his friend by phone. 鈥淲e鈥檒l get through this.鈥�

When Hayvas arrived at his (friend鈥檚) home, he found him outside. After urging his distraught friend back into his apartment, 鈥渉e then grabbed a 12-gauge shotgun, put it in his mouth, and placed his finger on the trigger,鈥� Hayvas recalled to Dori.

鈥淚 reached for the gun, moved his finger, and grabbed the weapon away from him. I then checked the gun and it had a 12-gauge slug in the chamber. The safety was off. This was a serious attempt at suicide.鈥�

When an exhausted Hayvas returned home after accompanying his friend to a hospital emergency room, he emailed Dori in the middle of the night about his frustration.

鈥淚s this where we have ended up?鈥� he wrote. 鈥淭he police won鈥檛 even respond to an immediate life threat? I worked in this very county as a firefighter/paramedic for many years. This isn鈥檛 the way it used to be. We didn鈥檛 expect our citizens to play the role of cop or firefighter.鈥�

State law created by House Bill 1310 鈥� a measure proposed by outgoing Rep. Jesse Johnson (D-Federal Way) and passed 55-42 on mostly party lines 鈥� has been seeing the fallout ever since. The 2021 law has left law enforcement officials around the state questioning its intent and effectiveness in a crisis.

In their Wednesday interview, Hayvas told Dori he doesn鈥檛 blame law enforcement or 911 call center teams for their lack of response in his friend鈥檚 case. In the return call he took from the police sergeant, Hayvas said, the officer 鈥渨as anguished. They want to respond. They want to help. I really feel we have tied their hands.鈥�

In a related twist, just last month, Washington state initiated its new 988 nationwide crisis phone line. It was designed to consolidate various hotlines and phone services for any caller needing a response for mental health or substance abuse treatment struggles. The Washington State Legislature passed House Bill 1477 in 2021 in response to a 2020 Congressional . It was meant to complement the current 911 emergency line. Washington funds its 988 program by taxing phone and internet lines at about 40 cents per account.

It is unclear whether Hayvas鈥� call to 911 was forwarded to the state鈥檚 new 988 call center.

But it is the law from House Bill 1310 that has him most concerned.

鈥淭his has to be fixed,鈥� Hayvas believes. 鈥淲e the people want it. The police want it too. I don鈥檛 blame the (police department) for this in the least. I could tell the officer who called me was genuinely distraught that he could not respond. It makes me sad Dori.鈥�

Suicide prevention resources:

Call, text, or chat 988 to be connected to the聽 (NSPL). This service is confidential, free, and available around the clock, 365 days a year.

Dial 988 if you are having:

• Thoughts of suicide
• Mental health crises
• Substance use concerns
• Any other kind of emotional distress

Dial 988 if you are:

• Worried about someone you believe may need crisis support.

988 does not replace any crisis call centers in Washington state. It is an addition to the state鈥檚 network of crisis center providers. The 10-digit NSPL number, 1-800-273-TALK (8255), is still active.

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